server

Hi, I have not been able to play on either of the prima servers as they are still showing up as not compatible , for ages now, What free servers are available for multi player without being killed for no reason., I just want to get on and play, No intention off destroying other peoples bases etc, I tried joining the default server in multi play but found I cannot cut trees down and cannot eat water melons as it will not let me pick them up. Can anyone suggest a friendly English speaking sever where I can play without being killed, I love this game and not played on a multi player server since the recent update. Thank you